Hi Dr. Avani, I am struggling with a fact in my married life! Remarried nine years back, met on a ma
Hi Dr. Avani, I am struggling with a fact in my married life! Remarried nine years back, met on a marriage platform, he is a decent man with a diabetic background who also had an abusive marriage! We liked each other care for each other but never had a normal married life he has totally stopped responding to our sexual needs it was never there but watever little we had is gone!
There is v little physical intimacy other than hug n
Kiss n general care! He is unable to
Perform! On top
Has stopped asking about my needs, keeps saying he wants to but has not
Taken a single step! Other than some financial and general support in
Life we don't have much going on.
He never shares his financial
Future either! At this stage what I do I do he has two
His previous marriage who live in west. Please help
11 Mar 2017, 03:56pm
Thank you so much for your patience with me and answering your question. It seems like you and your partner have drifted apart. Have you had a frank conversation in a loving matter about the issues in your marriage? No accusing him, but in an open way - I feel (XXX) when I don't get time from you. Using "I" statements can help to connect instead of making such conversations combative. It;s important to ask for what you want instead of making your partner wrong for not providing it.
On the whole, I would also ask if his health is being taken care of. Diabetics can have periods of low energy and that can put a lot of things on hold. Ask for what you need, try to make a connection, see if that helps.
Hope this helps - let me know if you need any more help. View Less
Thank you so much for your patience with me and answering your question. It seems l